1.
THE ESSENCE OF LIFE AND MEANING
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Life
- it's an amazing phenomenon!
Consider
for a moment all that life is: its scope; its diversity; its complexity;
and its enormity! Through the ages of existence there have been billions
of people, hundreds perhaps even thousands of cultures, incredible events,
remarkable discoveries, fantastic accomplishments, incalculable adventures
and tremendous experiences - both good and bad. History has woven a
truly extraordinary tapestry of so many marvellous events, one can't
help but be in awe of all that life has been and is today. Without doubt,
it is an incredible reality. One could easily dwell on so many fantastic
aspects of life and never exhaust the range of them - even in a lifetime.
Is it any wonder we constantly explore every conceivable facet of life
and record every wonderful event in our libraries, museums, and archives?
All
that life is, has been, and ever will be, is way beyond our limited
capacity to comprehend or fully understand. Sure we know enough to get
by, even to excel. We have the intellectual capacity to make life work
for us and achieve at least some measure of success. Yet in all our
learning and knowledge, do we ever honestly figure out the big picture?
Do we even know if there is a big picture? Is life simply a random assimilation
of matter, following some meaningless course over an indefinable timeframe
with no particular purpose or direction? Could it be that this amazing
phenomenon really does have some kind of meaning or purpose?
In
the cult movie classic 'The Matrix', life in this world was portrayed
as a computer generated simulation. In the real world, humans were held
captive as food cells for machines while the matrix created a pretence
of life as we know it in the minds of the millions of people held captive.
Such incredulous ideas arise because man is not satisfied with the current
explanation of life. We inherently expect life to have some significant
meaning and purpose - and it does!
Whatever
we regard life in all its fullness to be, let us first of all consider
the matter of a single human life. In the broadest possible sense of
all that life is, can any one human being be anything more than unremarkable
- a mere speck among that vast panorama of life?
Take
your own life for example. You find yourself alive here on earth, born
in this time, raised in your culture, and surrounded by the circumstances
of your own making and the making of others. Just how significant then
is your life? Surely considering the fantastic phenomenon that is life,
you are entirely insignificant.
In
the broader context of life it's relatively easy to dismiss the significance
of meaning and purpose. Life is just so big we seldom ever bother to
seriously think about it. However our own personal existence certainly
is another matter. To even entertain the concept that we are totally
insignificant can actually be quite disconcerting - especially when
we consider all the effort we put into looking after and promoting our
own interests and welfare. However, the reality of life is patently
clear - in relation to the magnitude of this world, our individual lives
appear to all intents and purposes, to be totally meaningless. Our labours,
achievements, and contributions are essentially irrelevant. In the words
of another philosopher - "All is vanity and grasping for the wind."
That
essentially is the stark reality of life!
Interestingly
enough, resigning ourselves to meaninglessness and purposelessness goes
against the grain. We inherently feel our lives must have some meaning
and purpose - even if we can't say how. Our life is certainly important
to us and probably also important to a number of others too - loved
ones, family, friends, employers / employees, colleagues, bank managers,
etc. Consequently, some of us do find a personal and sincere meaning
and purpose in so many aspects of life, and with that, we can be content.
Yet in doing so, can we possibly concede that a meaning and purpose
may exist beyond our own personal realm to a greater extent hitherto
unknown? If life in the wider context appears to reveal no universal
meaning and purpose, how is it possible that your own seemingly insignificant
life can have any meaning, purpose, value, or worth?
Ultimately
this is what this book is about.
Life
is designed and structured to allow you the complete freedom to interpret
it how ever you want, and take it for whatever you want it to be. You
are free to construe whatever meaning and purpose you want. In fact
man has done just this very thing. He has directed his course, both
individually and corporately, to achieve whatever outcome he has purposed
for himself.
But
is this sufficient evidence to conclude that the meaning and purpose
of life is just whatever we want it to be? I think not! - why? Because
deep within each one of us is an inherent capacity to contemplate eternity
- eternity is in our heart. We readily acknowledge our limitations and
frequently regret our failure to accomplish anything of any real importance
in life. We applaud those few people who over the course of history
have accomplished outstanding achievements, and sometimes wonder - why
not me? And always in the back of our mind is that severest of limitations
- death! Yet in the deepest recesses of our being, the great majority
of us readily hold fast to a comforting hope that life will continue
beyond the grave. While this life may fail to deliver us our due portion,
we must surely be headed for a better deal.
We
know that life existed before we did and we know it is most likely to
continue beyond our short existence. But no matter how remarkable or
otherwise our accomplishments, our limited lifespan is totally insufficient
for our capacity for life. Therefore aging and death cheats us of our
potential.
I
expect we all realise that we can never know everything that is to be
known and that we can never do everything that could be done, even if
we had a hundred lifetimes. Yet it is our intellectual capability and
scope for potential that allows us to envisage far more in life than
we will ever attain to. Consequently, the severe limitation death consigns
us to, compels us to consider the concept of a universal meaning and
purpose to life.
The
very nature of life exudes meaning and purpose. The trouble of course
is that we don't know what it is and few people are able to explain
it to us. We tend therefore, to forget about it - pretend it really
doesn't matter. We deny our inner expectation that there is more to
life than we know, and naively accept meaninglessness. Alternatively
we put our hope and expectation in the baseless belief that it will
all work out just fine in the end - that "she'll be right mate!"
Whether
or not meaning and purpose in life is important to you or not is academic.
You quite probably have got this far without knowing precisely what
it is, most things in life are OK, so what does it matter? The truth
is you could toss this book in the trash right now and forget about
it, and life will simply carry on in much the same way that it has done
so till now. It will continue in the natural course of life just as
millions of lives have continued before, and do continue even now.
It
is only once you see and understand what the true meaning and purpose
of life is all about, that the contradictory evidences and predicaments
of life that so easily deceive us into accepting meaninglessness and
purposelessness, become clear.
The
first question we must ask is "Does it even matter?" Just
how important is meaning and purpose?
Well
that depends! Superficially, not much. Millions of people have lived
and died and never known why - never discovered what life is really
all about. But for those who do discover the true meaning and purpose
of life, an unimaginable world opens up to them that defies description.
Inconceivable to the natural mind, a destiny and future is revealed
that surpasses our wildest hopes or dreams.
You
see, this is why it is all so fascinating. If life really does have
some universal meaning and purpose, surely we would all know by now
what it was, or at least discover it in the course of our life. It is
because we don't, that the issue of meaning and purpose is so profound.
Only in understanding the true meaning and purpose of life will we realise
why this universal meaning and purpose is so elusive.
4.
COUNTERING PREJUDICE
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of author Grant Bowater. No reproductions for any purpose may be made
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There's
three very good reasons why getting a handle on the meaning of life
is worth your persevering with this book.
Firstly
you will discover how to significantly improve your state of well-being
in this world.
Secondly
you will learn some key strategies to significantly improve both your
own and your children's prospects of succeeding in life.
Thirdly
you will gain an understanding of what is required to extend your life
beyond the grave and into eternity.
I
can also assure you that an improved state of being can be achieved
without trauma. To get the full benefit of a vastly improved lot both
now and after death will certainly require some meaningful changes,
but I reiterate that merely by adopting and implementing a simple approach
to life, you'll most definitely be better off!
Now
it doesn't take rocket science to figure out that a book on the meaning
of life is almost certainly going to have a religious focus. Well you're
right! The inevitable is obvious. However, you may be surprised to know
that this book does more than just pander to the religious mainstream,
and as far as conforming to common religious thinking - far from it.
Besides,
it is impossible to have any view on the meaning of life that is not
religious. Religion by definition includes: a creed, belief, or faith.
And because within the definition of absolute proof, no argument for
the meaning of life has ever been established, any such concept held,
must therefore be held as a matter of faith or belief - a religious
view no less!
Up
front this book is an apologetic discourse for the case of Christianity,
but it is certainly not your usual fare.
It
takes a fresh albeit controversial approach!
Undoubtedly
significant elements of Christendom would not necessarily agree with
certain aspects of the propositions put forward in this book. There's
a raft of reasons why this is so, some of which will become clear through
the content of this book. As to the validity of the divergence from
mainstream Christian philosophy, I'll leave you to be the judge.
This
book says what needs to be said. It's primary objective is to put matters
straight regarding a number of commonly held misconceptions about God,
religious faith, life, death, and how to be successful in life - particularly
as propagated by mainstream Christendom.
Too
often the proclamation of the Christian faith has been coloured with
traditional bias where fear and guilt have been the primary motivators
to win converts. God has often been incorrectly portrayed as strict,
judgemental, and distant.
Alternatively,
the "come as you are" method has at times been employed in
desperation to win converts. This approach portrays God as yearning
for the privilege of our devotion, and implores us to do Him the favour
of becoming a believer.
Christianity
has not been as successful in achieving its objectives because its proponents
have not always got the message right. Too many people have been offended
at the Christian witness for reasons other than the right one. Certainly
"Christ crucified" is an offense to many, but it is tragic
when it has been the offence of the Christian witness that has either
turned away potential followers or inoculated others to the true message.
It
is time an accurate, rational presentation of the meaning of life was
presented - one that sweeps away the folklore, false traditions, and
emotive language, allowing the individual to take a long clear reasoned
look at the facts as they really are.
Because
traditional religion has not done a very good job of answering some
of the most reasonable questions of life, many people have understandably
developed a preconceived bias against religion.
Certainly
Christianity appears fragmented and polarized over various issues. Historically
there are incidents and occasions that justify alarm, and most people
have little trouble finding examples of hypocrisy. Not-with-standing
such evidence challenging the credibility of the Christian faith, I
intend to make plain, the substantial difference between the real meaning
of life, and the general perception of the traditional or historical
Christian view.
While
I suspect strong feelings of doubt rise up and perhaps even disdain,
for the notion that a book of religious ideas could possibly produce
any satisfactory answers, bear with me for at least the early chapters.
It's
quite likely that you've justifiably dismissed most religious argument,
that you've heard it all before, and you can't possibly think of anything
new or different that could be said to persuade you otherwise, but allow
me to enlighten you. I trust this book will not disappoint.
Most
people give at least some thought to religion over the course of their
life. The scope of that thought, however cursory, would have been significantly
influenced by the observation of, and perhaps even an experience with,
a particular religious view. If that included the Christian church or
Christians, there are likely to be a number examples of how, why, and
what they believe can't possibly be true.
It
is these kinds of prejudices that I would ask you to reserve in the
interim. Alternatively, take a chance and have a crack at finding the
flaws in the arguments that follow - at the very least that should be
fun.
For
those of other faiths, I invite you to lay aside your opinions of Christianity
and take an inquisitive look at what this book has to say. I admit to
giving little credence to other faiths although I have no intention
of deriding or belittling them. It is not the purpose of this book to
compare or evaluate other faiths and I endorse the freedom and respect
for all to believe what they may. I trust that by setting out a thorough
and reasoned explanation for the meaning and purpose of life, you will
see more clearly where Christianity is coming from and why its adherents
believe and act the way they do.
In
this day and age it is equally likely that you've had no meaningful
encounter with the Christian church or Christians at all. Our modern
post-Christian era (in Western society) has ensured many thousands of
people, particularly younger people, have had virtually no spiritual
or religious teaching whatsoever. If this is the case for you, then
you probably have no established misconceptions, bias or prejudice to
overcome - therefore enjoy this fascinating read!